Fluttering through the clouds...

(I must warn you that this is gonna be a pretty long blog and I don’t have the heart to split it into two. Hope you take the time out to read it and enjoy…)

A few kilometers from Dispur is this Junction called Khanapara. Driving for another 20 minutes from there you hit the Meghalaya border. Well initially you still aren’t hit with the realization that you have actually entered another state as the influence of Assam is still strong, as the Assam border is still not too far away. The roadside scenery changes from the dilapidated and unkempt government buildings, so much a part of the skyline of the Assamese capital, to the lush green paddy fields on terraced landscape and the ginger and turmeric cultivations. The roadside is now dotted with stalls selling pickles, a variety of them each mouthwatering, and meat, the predominant one being PORK!

As we near Shillong the capital city of Meghalaya I catch a glimpse of a very strange sight, a Maruthi 800 packed with over 10 people making its way up the curvy roads to the city. Well although initially shocked by the sight I was told by my friends, who by the way weren’t that amused by this, that this is a pretty common sight in shilling. Woah! Well that’s the only expression that’s came to mind at that juncture.

(Well I guess to us South Indians and a few North Indians this piece of information is equally shocking. If the general reaction to this piece of information is anything to go by. Down South I guess the Maruthi 800 has a much more revered position as opposed to a people carrier. Here it’s probably the first car 80 percent of the population buys as an upgrade to their college two wheelers in the case of college going students and the much needed upgrade to the scooters and fuel efficient bike of the common office goers.)

Since Shillong and the neighboring places are the only places I have been, I rather feel it comfortable to assume the rest of Meghalaya is of a similar geography. Hmmm… a generalization that I know is too much. Hitting Shillong is actually rejuvenating. Come to think of it, it is a place that’s calm, serene and not to tampered by the charms of commercialization. The last part in itself is enough to make any place on this earth charming.

The people of this little hamlet up in the Meghalayan Mountains too are a cheerful lot. Khasi women manned the majority of business as the Khasis are a very matrilineal tribe. The term is actually an unusual system for a person so used to hearing of the patriarchal system. Btw the youngest in the family is the one who in fact inherits the family businesses and she in fact has greater authority over the elder siblings in the family. Whew!

When it comes to the maintenance of the tourist spots of Shillong and nearby Chirapunjee, these people have it all sorted out by nature. Out of ten tourist attractions over seven are natural. Nature preserved means site preserved. A majority or rather every one of them has the local flavor in plenty, Water. Yeah I know you must keep asking what it is that I am saying well I mean waterfalls my friend. Every one scintillating in itself. Stand near a waterfall and if you listen really carefully you can actually listen to the music that is pouring forth. Each waterfall, regaling in beauty, a beauty that actually sings out to your soul. You can actually stand out there and feel yourself being washed over by a sense of calm.

Ever since I had heard about Chirapunjee being the wettest place on earth, with annual rainfall at levels that are the prayers of people in other agriculture predominant state, I wanted to visit the place. A documentary on the place and the people only made the place even more exciting and desirable. Driving up from Shillong and towards Chirapunjee we stop at the famed elephant falls and do a little bit of the touristy stuff, dressing up in Khasi attire and posing for the umpteen photo ops. As we near Chirapunjee the anticipation of rain and actually being there was rising to dangerous levels. Zipping past the open meadows and landscape dotted with a few Assam style architecture and a few broken buildings a scenery so much a picture of the landscape of Scotland.

Chirapunjee was disappointing in just one area. It was sunny! But the lack of rain made for several other interesting sights. The sights each one grand and added a mysticism to the place. The misty mountains forming valleys, valleys that in turn offered a spectacular view of the Bangladeshi Plains. Being a bright sunny day the view of the plains was all the more enthralling. Chirapunjee’s distinction of being the wettest place on earth is constantly being tossed back and forth with the neighbouring Mawsynram.

The beauty of the waterfalls and the lush greenery draped over mountains is only beaten by the mystery of the Mawsmai Caves. The Mawsmai Caves offers you a glimpse of the elaborate labyrinth of the several Limestone caves that dot the scenery. Entering into the caves the initial feeling is a claustrophobic one. One where the caves try to embrace you into its dark underbelly. The caves are basically divided into separate areas and each area is cordoned into varying sizes and shapes. The walls of the caves are molded into weird shapes and sizes and the all this by WATER. Yes water actually makes for a lot of the interesting sight around this place. Although the caves have its own mysticism and all the presence of the light bulb although casting a faint yellow glow, I think it could have been a bit more adventurous and romantic if had they given every individual a candle(of course not a very good idea since there is water dripping all round you, good for a competition though) or a torch. This would in fact allow for a lot more excitement and a sense of adventure.

As we headed back to Shillong we cross a vast expanse of grassland which on our way to Chirapunjee was empty. Now late in the evening the grassland was full and apparently it looked like an archery contest was in progress. Leaving it at that it took a walk through the streets of shillong to understand what the archery was all about. Apparently that’s the lottery in Meghalaya, the archers fire arrows from about 50 to 60 feet away into a gunny bag and the count of the arrows stuck on the bag is taken and submitted as the result. That’s an absolutely weird sport that I have had the pleasure to come across in the recent past.

The city of Shillong being an educational center it draws a large number of students from all over the northeast. This fine mix of the student population and the governing body of Meghalaya tends to lend this old capital of Assam an aura too difficult to describe with mere words. The pleasant population and the ever present chill in the air makes Sillong a place worth visiting. Its not just a place for people who want to get closer to nature but also a heaven for the shopaholics! Yes Shillong’s shopping district of Police Bazaar has it all. It’s a bargainer’s paradise, once you get used to the women business woman behind the counter. Sporting the traditional and comfortable two piece jainsem offered them an effortless grace and ease of movement. Well that’s just observation and will leave it at that for fear of sounding too gay.

Spending time in Shillong brings back a lot of memories I’ve had growing up in the hill stations down south but leaving Shillong only reminded me of the little time I spent with close friends and how it is times that you will never get again. With fondness and a heartfelt desire to return I must salute the mysticism that is Shillong with friends.

Men is the actor. Life is the stage.

Well I know what you are thinking… but this is the prelude to the following event.

The sun keeps playing hide and seek behind dark clouds not shining down brightly but offering glimpses of its majestic brilliance and grandeur, teasing, enlightening and spreading warmth. This game of hide and seek offers for a relatively comfortable drive and a very relaxed feeling. The strum of the guitar coupled with light drum beats and accompanied by a plethora of other musical instruments creates a very surreal environment in the car.

Zipping in and out of traffic making slow yet steady progress, sometimes frustrating, sometimes satisfaction, all this a part and parcel of highway driving. Joyous and peaceful keeping up a decent pace with time, kept thinking to myself woah, this is proceeding more smoothly than I thought.

Well talk of speaking too fast, just as I thought of that sentence did I get stuck behind an eitcher truck. Like all trucks found on the Indian highway this one too was no exception when it came to being grandly decked. Strikingly what caught the attention was not the usual Blow Horn inscription or the unusual ornaments hanging from every available hook, but the advice, “Men is the actor. Life is the Stage”.

Crawling behind this mammoth truck I couldn’t help but wonder in amazement at this statement. Leaving the truck behind and zooming down the highway and trying to get a place to overtake an ambassador car actually brought the little proverb read earlier back to life. Ahead of the car was this ambassador car swerving and pretty much taking up the whole road. Trying to overtake him only proved to be too dangerous and undertaking.

Coming to the conclusion I decide to trail this guy rather than try to be overly adventurous and stay a few car spaces behind him. Pretty sure he is going to do something amusing we watch patiently. The guy is driving too fast and swerving from side to side is not a very comfortable situation. My guess proved to be true when only after a couple of minutes he overtakes a maruthi van from the left and cuts in. Misjudging the speed of the van the ambassadors tail gate hits the maruthi vans front and the van shakes a bit, but continues on for a little while.

I was thnking to myself, man! people have become really tolerant and the absence of road rage impressive. But I guess I was wrong cause a little while later the van starts accelerating and chasing the car. I guess the people in the van were a little shook up over the whole incident that just took place and were regaining their bearings. Pretty soon the whole scene looked like a scene from a movie with one guy chasing the other and trying to flag the car, still swerving, by throwing water bottles and cutting off the highway. The people from the car get down and throw their wheel spanner at the ambassador and misses, guess the guy too was out of form like our cricket stars… this looses them precious time as the car cheats the road block and carries on, speeding to the next turn to their hometown before the van guys catch them. A couple of kilometers down the road they turn off and so does the maruthi van. Unfortunately I can only guess the after effect and not give a clearer picture as the scene got shifted into a village road nearby and we still had a long way to go.

But still the fun in actually getting to watch a thrilling action sequence which was very much in charater of the line,”MEN IS THE ACTOR. LIFE IS THE STAGE”.

One second friends

Friends the English dictionary defines as - A person you know well and regard with affection and trust.

Everyday in our life we encounter umpteen number of people many of them acquaintances and then there are a very few who actually fit into the description of, or rather carry the distinguished tabs called friends. There are a few people I know who can actually convert every acquaintance to a friend in no time and then there are a select few who actually take a hell of a long time to actually make a friend.

Although I can shyly claim to be a major player in the latter I must say I make hundreds of friends in a day. I meet them at the signal, I meet them at the market, I meet them at bus stops and I meet them on the road… Well I guess I must have riled you all to a great extent by now. You must be wondering how a guy who claims to constitute the latter half of the spectrum of friendship (taking really long to become friends) actually can claim to have hundreds of people thrust into the classification of friends.

Well not keeping you in suspense for much longer, all these people are my one second friends. Have you ever heard of them? Of course each one of us encounters such one second friends every living day of our lives. I too went along with a contented life not knowing exactly that I literally had millions of such friend until I was driving through the coffee plantations of coorg. My uncle and I were returning home when we noticed another jeep coming at us at speeds far exceeding the limit! The jeep kept closing in failing to slow down… it got closer and closer and closer… the closer it got the more nervous you get as the road is hardly wide enough to fit two jeeps and one of us have to go off road and not wanting to be the one to go into the dirt I stick to the road clambering very slowly ahead. The other jeep oblivious to any of these facts just speeds on towards us.

Driving around in cars most of the time you sometimes tend to forget that a jeep is more suited to the rugged terrain than an ordinary car, be it of any make. Wanting to preserve my tyres and in general the jeep I edge to the side of the road. By now the other jeep is manically hurdling towards us, obviously the other driver has thrown caution out the window. Awaiting patiently for the obvious to happen any second now I look out for options to get out of this mess. My brain processing the terrain and the several other calculations at speeds that would put a super computer to shame and also something that brought about an astonished look to my face.

Anytime now… 5sec, 4sec, 3sec, 2 sec… I didn’t need to get to 1! Whoooooshhhh, thud, thud, thud…

The other jeep was soon becoming a speck in my rear view mirror and to my horror I realized that I am driving on the edge of the road, certainly not something that is good for the vehicle and something that I had tried to avoid right from the beginning. A few seconds after the whole experience my uncle looks at me and asks what the hell was I trying to do. He calmly said that if you were so hell bent on saving the tyres why didn’t you just take it off the road. The tyres are made for exactly that kind of terrain. Not only that by staying on the road what have you gained nothing but a stream of obscenities shouted at you by the other driver.

It was then that I realized I had made a one second enemy. My uncle also went on to say that by going a little out of the way you actually ensure that you and the other vehicle have enough space to pass by comfortably and avoid having your day spoilt. That aside from the fact that you are never going to meet the other driver in the near future and it doesn’t hurt to be a courteous driver. This is what got me thinking that by being a bit courteous I actually make a one second friend.

Like the definition of a friend states that a friend is one who you know well and trust, my one minute friends are fellow drivers who I know well and trust to do the right thing so as to pass by without any incidents. So the next time you pass by another car do the right thing and if possible do something that you think is the best possible solution in the given situation without aggravating the other and you too have gained yourself a new ONE SECOND FRIEND…

The Harmonious Friends

On a recent trip to a Tibetan documentary festival, I happened to stop by a thrift shop set up at the venue… (that’s when an idea struck me why keep on writing about the usual and why not take a deviation from the beaten track and look at the Tibetan problems from a different perspective. I would rather say the teachings and culture are often quite explicitly explained in the varied documentaries, often portraying, the land, the religion and the people. But rarely do you get to hear any folklore associated to the region).

Well like all thrift shops they had several things that are usually associated with Thrift shops… Well of the whole lot, one thing caught my attention in particular. It was a sticker and not like any of the other stickers available at the shop. While the other sticker were screaming out in bold “save Tibet”, or “students for a Liberated Tibet”, this one only had a picture on it. No words blaring out any message just one picture.

To describe the picture, let’s see; it was a round sticker, predominantly green, with a landscape in the back ground and in the fore ground it had a tree and below the tree stood an elephant, atop with sat a monkey hold aloft a rabbit and finally a bird completing this strange pyramid.

Now looking at this strange sticker I ask the guy behind the counter the story behind the sticker and get the following explanation:

Once upon a time an elephant came upon a giant tree in the forest by the river bank. He rested under its shade for a rest. Soon a monkey came to rest there also. The elephant said, "This is my tree. I found it first." The monkey replied, "Do you see any fruit on this tree?" "No" said the elephant. The monkey said triumphantly, "Ah! I was here before you and I ate up the fruits on this tree before you got here." The elephant then bowed to the monkey, "OK, you're my big brother, since you came here first." "Wait a minute" said the rabbit that hopped by, "When I saw this tree, it was just a sapling with only a few branches and certainly not any fruit. So I was here before both of you." Then the elephant and monkey bowed to the rabbit: "OK, you're our big brother, since you were here first." Just then, they heard "Ha! Ha! Ha!" from a partridge on the treetop: "This tree wouldn't have sprouted if I didn't spit out the seed from a fruit I had eaten. So I was here before all of you." Then the elephant, monkey, and rabbit, all bowed to the partridge, "OK, you're truly our big brother, since you planted this very tree." Then they decided to share the tree together in peaceful harmony— enjoying the beauty of the tree's fragrance, the nourishment of the tree's fruits, and the bounty of the tree's shade. Other animals in the forest often see them together with the partridge on top of the rabbit that is held up by the monkey who rides on top of the elephant. Henceforth, they were called "the four harmonious brothers", and by their example, peace reigned throughout the jungle.

Well that was the folklore associated with the sticker, well I began to wonder what is it that this sticker so blatantly trying to convey. Well upon further investigation I am told it is the That is, when our body (the elephant), mind (the restless monkey), and emotion (the hare in the moon) are balanced, our soul (the bird) is open to the spirit (the tree of life). A sticker on the folklore of the harmonious four to explain Buddhism, it sure is an interesting…